Hello SMIO. Thank you for helping People. My husband has a big penis and every time we have sex my vulva tears.
We’ve tried to use lubricant and avoid certain positions, to no avail. That is the only advice I have ever found online and I am too embarrassed to ask my doctor for help.
This has only been a problem with my husband, not previous partners. Is there anything else we can do to avoid injury?
It has reduced our sex life greatly, as it makes me nervous to initiate anything. We have been together almost 10 years and the tearing is getting worse.
What do we do?